First Acquaintance

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First acquaintance, then friend ...

November 24th 2006 12:38

The ‘Friends Zone’, a place that no one wants to be with the person they are head over heals for. Why? Cause the likelihood of ever escaping it is very slim and the progression to relationship is very hard. The most horrible situations when you get all google eyed when you see your perfect guy or girl but then you are filled with a sad longing and envy when they wrap themselves around someone else’s arms and they approach you and he/she introduces you to them as your friend. Then, to avoid the friend’s zone is to never get trapped in it in the first place. When you start to get too close to the person of your dreams then just back off and see other people and preoccupy your time with everything but that person to avoid becoming the ‘piner’. That is, if you can stand the fact that you may lose or not develop a very important friendship. But, then when they are dating someone, don’t just wait for them, try your best to meet someone and keep a distant but stable relationship with your ultimate someone.

But that is if you let yourself near the periphery of the friend’s zone. So how do you make the moves on someone who has become a friend? They would probably think you’re joking and laugh it off when you do and humor is always good when you are making a complete fool of yourself. But the best time to ever try the moves on a friend is probably when you have had tonnes of alcohol or you can pretend to have it in your system because then at least you have an excuse the next day that you can’t remember a thing. See doing it after a long lapse of time would make the friendship difficult and awkward. Then it may be best to do it when you just realize that you really like a person and the friendship is just fresh in which you shouldn’t wait to ask that person out, just do it cause in the end at least you may still have a friendship.

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The Person Behind the Greasy

November 17th 2006 08:15

The furrowing of the brow or the raised eyebrow or even the contorting of the face with the pursed lips from looking at or merely brandishing a smile is some examples of what is called a greasy.

The signal of rejection not because of personality but because of the way you look or what you are wearing maybe or it’s your body weight or even your height is the issue or maybe that your smile was a little full on and really scared them. Seriously, never open your mouth and brandish all your teeth with bulging eyeballs because that’s just freaky. But when I see someone with a contorted face and pursed lips I think that person must be constipated or has really bad indigestion and won’t be very good company anyway. Though, intuition would tell most people to look away from that person immediately and gait the other direction when someone gives them a greasy. However, what about if you actually went up to that person and say “Are you okay? Is something troubling you?”

Not only would that person be totally taken aback by your approach but would be slightly embarrassed and somewhat guilty for brandishing such a crude gesture as to what appears under this first impression to a nice person. Truly, this nasty look could have even been conjured by family or work related issues that even a really nice person will produce from time to time. If however they tell you to fuck off, then they are certainly not worth the trouble because they are probably too superficial and shallow to look beyond first appearances. Also, in my experience, superficial people usually have little to say and talk in one syllable purely because thoughts make their pretty little brains hurt and usually are in the long run totally boring because their existence and their ideals do not change. Then that person is not worthy of your company and totally a waste of time. Therefore, it’s all about taking chances where in any situation there is an opportunity and even a greasy can be the way to meeting someone.

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Making Your Own Limits

November 15th 2006 05:35

Low self esteem has been one of the biggest obstacles for both sexes to overcome in the endeavor to meet people. Not being good enough, not having the right personality or they think they are too quiet etc… But honestly if you go to a bar the lights are dim, most people are nearly utterly intoxicated and most probably will not remember anything about the night before in the morning. So then there is no need to have insecurities about oneself because if there is a bad encounter with another individual you will only be remembered for a few minutes and then you will be completely wiped from their memory. Therefore, there should be no hesitation in going up to someone and trying to start a conversation because what is there to lose; nothing. But you might gain a phone number. There are magazines and media outlets publicizing that the ultimate look is having the chiseled face and the hard rock abs. Though, honestly how many people are truly like that like not even one per cent of the population? It’s reported in the media at least twice a year particularly during Christmas that we have an obesity problem. But that is not to say looking presentable is not important because very long facial hair, a comb over, unkempt hair and a bulging gut over your belt is not attractive and a lot of women will walk away at the mere sight of it. Though, women are not very hard to please, it is preferred a man with a personality any day than a man with a perfect body because when you are shriveled up, old and grey all that is left is conversation. So then how to feel good about oneself is obviously firstly removing all the insecurities that can be removed like men should pluck their mono brows and women should wax their upper lip if they themselves have a problem with it. Though an encounter with anyone can go so far if there is nothing to talk about and the last thing anyone wants to spend doing during their time off is to talk about work. So the point is beauty is subjective where you might think you’re hideous but to someone else you are the most beautiful person in the world and your insecurities are only your own.

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The Pickup Artist

November 15th 2006 05:28

Pickup artistry has become a craze not only for young men but men with balding scalps and even age spots. What is the attraction? To get the most desirable woman to fall head over heals in lust and then leave them. These men do not use sleazy pickup lines like ‘did it hurt falling from heaven’ but by breaking the ice through asking a direct question like ‘How do I get to Crown Casino?’ or ‘Do you know a guy named Tom?’ as some examples to start their conquest. They never approach a woman from the back, nor hold eye contact for more than three seconds. The conversation will never be boring as they will mention outrageous things to make the women laugh and get positive feed back and above all they will never talk about status or occupation throughout the interaction. They may also be wearing some strange piece of clothing to be more mysterious and to make the woman more curious about whom they are, like wearing some piece of jewelry or head wear. But what they rely most of all is a simple smile as that is their best asset of allurement. If however they meet a woman who is not friendly towards them, she will not break their self-esteem because in their mind-set is that how can a stranger who you have only met for a few minutes break you. So as the world becomes more technologically advanced and old ways are lost, so does the art of pickup artistry evolves where the underground society has websites, forums in which they interact to discuss tactics and even books are now published to help men master the art. So should women be wary of such men? I being a woman myself think no because confident men with interesting conversation is attractive.

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