First acquaintance, then friend ...
November 24th 2006 12:38
The ‘Friends Zone’, a place that no one wants to be with the person they are head over heals for. Why? Cause the likelihood of ever escaping it is very slim and the progression to relationship is very hard. The most horrible situations when you get all google eyed when you see your perfect guy or girl but then you are filled with a sad longing and envy when they wrap themselves around someone else’s arms and they approach you and he/she introduces you to them as your friend. Then, to avoid the friend’s zone is to never get trapped in it in the first place. When you start to get too close to the person of your dreams then just back off and see other people and preoccupy your time with everything but that person to avoid becoming the ‘piner’. That is, if you can stand the fact that you may lose or not develop a very important friendship. But, then when they are dating someone, don’t just wait for them, try your best to meet someone and keep a distant but stable relationship with your ultimate someone.
But that is if you let yourself near the periphery of the friend’s zone. So how do you make the moves on someone who has become a friend? They would probably think you’re joking and laugh it off when you do and humor is always good when you are making a complete fool of yourself. But the best time to ever try the moves on a friend is probably when you have had tonnes of alcohol or you can pretend to have it in your system because then at least you have an excuse the next day that you can’t remember a thing. See doing it after a long lapse of time would make the friendship difficult and awkward. Then it may be best to do it when you just realize that you really like a person and the friendship is just fresh in which you shouldn’t wait to ask that person out, just do it cause in the end at least you may still have a friendship.
But that is if you let yourself near the periphery of the friend’s zone. So how do you make the moves on someone who has become a friend? They would probably think you’re joking and laugh it off when you do and humor is always good when you are making a complete fool of yourself. But the best time to ever try the moves on a friend is probably when you have had tonnes of alcohol or you can pretend to have it in your system because then at least you have an excuse the next day that you can’t remember a thing. See doing it after a long lapse of time would make the friendship difficult and awkward. Then it may be best to do it when you just realize that you really like a person and the friendship is just fresh in which you shouldn’t wait to ask that person out, just do it cause in the end at least you may still have a friendship.
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