Making Your Own Limits
November 15th 2006 05:35
Low self esteem has been one of the biggest obstacles for both sexes to overcome in the endeavor to meet people. Not being good enough, not having the right personality or they think they are too quiet etc… But honestly if you go to a bar the lights are dim, most people are nearly utterly intoxicated and most probably will not remember anything about the night before in the morning. So then there is no need to have insecurities about oneself because if there is a bad encounter with another individual you will only be remembered for a few minutes and then you will be completely wiped from their memory. Therefore, there should be no hesitation in going up to someone and trying to start a conversation because what is there to lose; nothing. But you might gain a phone number. There are magazines and media outlets publicizing that the ultimate look is having the chiseled face and the hard rock abs. Though, honestly how many people are truly like that like not even one per cent of the population? It’s reported in the media at least twice a year particularly during Christmas that we have an obesity problem. But that is not to say looking presentable is not important because very long facial hair, a comb over, unkempt hair and a bulging gut over your belt is not attractive and a lot of women will walk away at the mere sight of it. Though, women are not very hard to please, it is preferred a man with a personality any day than a man with a perfect body because when you are shriveled up, old and grey all that is left is conversation. So then how to feel good about oneself is obviously firstly removing all the insecurities that can be removed like men should pluck their mono brows and women should wax their upper lip if they themselves have a problem with it. Though an encounter with anyone can go so far if there is nothing to talk about and the last thing anyone wants to spend doing during their time off is to talk about work. So the point is beauty is subjective where you might think you’re hideous but to someone else you are the most beautiful person in the world and your insecurities are only your own.
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